I (m26) became a dad a month ago. Hence, why I’m posting at 4 am. I can’t sleep. I got my girlfriend (f24) who I was living with pregnant. Her parents never really approved of me after that.
When I brought her home after the birth, her parents came with us. I paid a buddy of mine to buy a bunch of things she couldn’t have while pregnant or avoided while pregnant and put them in a basket. Some notable items were sushi, an expensive bottle of her favorite wine and a keureg machine.
I know she misses having a glass every once in a while. She’s been especially strong when I had my buddies over to watch sports and we had a few beers. Also she loves her coffee and I couldn’t tell you how she went to work for 8 months without it. So I felt bad and splurged.
When her parents saw this gift they called me uneducated and said that the alcohol can get in the breast milk. I told them I did my research and they said that it is immature to gift alcohol to a woman who just gave birth.
I may be overthinking this but AITA?