DH and I have been together for 2 years. He and I live in a home that I bought from my mom's inheritance money. His mom always talks about how messy our home is and although there's 2 people living in this house, she always directs her comments & criticism towards me. She'd even bring it up infront of lots of people which puts me on the spot constantly. She also seems to forget that I'm pregoo and still work while her son covers 2 night shift every other week.
Last week was my final straw. We were gathered at dinner, and she brought up how "messy" my home was the last time she visited. She lectured me for half an hour about it then started shaming for the state of the house. I snapped and told her "it's so ironic and hypocritical of you to keep lecturing me on the state of my house as if I don’t live with someone that YOU raised". She went silent and DH stared at me in disbelief. Things got awkward and next thing I knew, DH storms out and dinner gets cut short.
We went home and he yelled at me about how I insulted and humiliated him by implying that he's a lazy, dirty, bum. He said it was a cheap attempt to get at him when I should've just kept him out of the conflict his mom and I have.
He's not speaking to me and he's extremely upset, he went to stay with his brother and has bern cold to me about this for days now saying I used him as a "tool" to get back at his mom and that he was innocent and shouldn't have been humiliated like that.
AITA?