I (M26) come from a very traditional farmer ethnic group. My girlfriend (F24) wanted to visit my extended family with me when I went on my annual trip, so I agreed to let her come with.
We spent some time at my grandma’s farm on the trip. My grandma has a chicken coop, and she has been slaughtering one every two weeks because she is trying to downsize the coop. She has done this a few times in the past when the grain harvest she uses to feed the chickens isn’t going well, so she gets rid of some of the chickens because there isn’t enough food to support all of them.
I explained this to my girlfriend beforehand and warned her to not get too attached to any of the chickens because they may be gone soon. However, she disregarded what I said and hung out around the coop a lot for the week we were there. She got really attached to the oldest hen and would try to sneak it more food and things like that.
My grandma sent me a week after to slaughter that hen because it was getting old and couldn’t lay eggs anymore. I did so, and my girlfriend was outraged when she found out (my grandma was getting ready to cook the hen in the kitchen.) She called me a cruel asshole for killing her “pet,” and demanded that we leave my grandma’s farm and go to the city for the rest of the trip so she can “escape the barbaric culture” of my grandma’s rural lifestyle. AITA?