AITA for Standing by the door while waiting for him to finish talking?



I just broke up with my boyfriend and didn’t mean to…

I am a 32-year-old woman with a good job and her own house, I am the only child and was raised spoiled; my boyfriend knew that. I always get what I want and when I want it, and no one has ever seemed to have a problem with it because I’m charming. People like me.

We were at our friends’ house the other day, and I wanted to go home. We had been there for two hours, and I was getting sleepy. I told my boyfriend that I would only spend two hours there because I didn’t feel like going, to begin with. He said we had a deal, so I was surprised when he said he wanted to be there a little longer.

They were talking about sports, and I didn’t care; I just wanted to go home. Every once and a while, I would suggest we leave, and they would keep talking. I even got up to stand by the door with my stuff, and my boyfriend turned his back on me and kept talking. We were there for another hour and a half, and they were talking.

When we got into the care, I was so over it that I couldn’t talk to him. On the drive home, he told me that I embarrassed him because I was acting like a child and that he was trying to have a conversation. I told him we had a deal, and he did not follow through; I had the right to be upset. He didn’t yell at me, but he did snap and said that he hadn’t seen his friend in almost two years in person because he was overseas and that they were catching up. He did say sorry for making me stay longer, but he said I was a spoiled brat and not everything needs to go my way.

I told him that he knew what I was before he dated me, and we should break up if he didn’t like it. I was joking, but he agreed. He dropped me off at my house and drove off, not even waiting for me to go inside. It’s been almost a day, and he hasn’t texted or called me back. His mother told me to give him some time, and his sister told me it was true and that I need to learn to treat people better.

I didn’t want to break up; I…was running at the mouth. What should I do?