A girlfriend and I threw our other girlfriend a surprise birthday party. It was a large gathering that included her family, friends and business associates. She’s the kind of person who loves these sorts of celebratory events, and the “surprise” aspect of this wasn’t upsetting or uncomfortable for her at all. She absolutely loved the party and all the effort we put into it.
The issue came afterwards, when the man she’s having a secret affair with loses his shit that he wasn’t invited. He’s married (she isn’t) and no one knows about the affair except the two of us friends throwing the party. Now, I don’t care AT ALL about how he felt about being excluded. He however, successfully got our friend upset about it as well, to the point of her telling us it was crappy of us not to invite him.
WTH?!? I’m absolutely shocked she had the audacity to say this to us. Looking to all of you to let me know if I’m in the wrong. Thanks!!