My(f49) husband (m50) and I usually visit friends in Maui for our sons (12) spring break. For the past 10 years I’ve worked for a major airline and our flights have been free. I have recently quit and I’m building a new career. It’s been slow going and I’m not bringing in the income I was hoping by now.
My husband bought plane tickets for himself and my son. I only found out about it when I was talking to the Maui friend saying we might not make it this year, due to finances. My husband then let me know he/son are going. (Prices have gone up by hundreds of dollars by the time I found out.) He suggested I buy a ‘buddy pass’ from an employee, and try to fly standby. Flying to Maui, during spring break, is nearly impossible on a buddy pass.
I’m refusing to buy a plane ticket this late, and I don’t want to hear anything about the trip. I can still talk to my son but I won’t be talking to my husband during the trip. AITAH for ignoring him.