My daughter (30) has a tendency to be too impulsive about her life and frankly I’m concerned most of the time.
About a month ago, she found a boyfriend in a whole different country and completely left my granddaughter (6) here with me. No warning, no nothing, just up and left one day.
Three weeks later, she needed to come back home because she had to sort out what to do with her house, daughter and her job. She packed everything up and took her daughter back to the country where the boyfriend lives. And due to her not having the skills to save money, she begged me to pay over 3 grand so she could go back.
Now she expects me to pay another 3 grand cause she just realized that the boyfriend, ex boyfriend now, is not what she thought he was. And I don’t have the money to pay again neither does her father.
So am I the asshole for not paying her to come back home?