I’ve made a post about my roommate before, and listening to what people said, I changed my actions a bit.
So back story, a month ago my roommate(24 F) and i (22F) had a conversation about my boyfriend being over 4-6 nights a week and she made me feel like a total douche about it. Since that post, my boyfriend will now spend 1 or 2 nights at my house a week, and we usually only hang out at my house if he is spending the night.
Now me and my roommate have separate rooms and our own bathrooms, my boyfriend and I have now started eating in my room because she had told me that it makes her uncomfortable that we eat together downstairs, and personally i can eat wherever idc, but to make her happy we just go upstairs and watch TV on my laptop instead of in the living room.
With that being said, my boyfriend was on a camping trip with his friends Wednesday-Sunday, he came back around 3 or 4 on Sunday, and stayed at my house until around 10, I drove him home and thought my roommate would be okay with him not sleeping over. Well, when i came home from dropping him off she asked me if he could stop coming over all together because she just “doesn’t want to deal with it”. This is where my issue comes in….
She constantly has people over on the weekends when I am not home, I’ve come home from work and had things missing or broken and although I have asked her to at least put my things away if she invites people over, she refuses. But she will try to tel me I can’t have my boyfriend over at all anymore? It just seems unfair in my opinion because I never tell her she can’t have people over even when it’s unbearable.
So I’m here asking if I’m the asshole for truly just stopping in trying to be civil with her and doing whatever I want? Our lease ends in a month so although I don’t have much longer living with her I’m wondering if I should just burn the bridge now or later.