My boyfriend (29m) and I (23m) are pretty affectionate people and like to display that affection (or pda). Nothing to crazy, just holding hands, maybe some cuddling when in the right enviroment and a peck here and there. Nothing straight people dont do routinely
When we are at his parents we tone it down, not because they are uncomfortable but because his brother (26m) is and we dont want to deal with the stupid shit he says under his breath. There have also been a few instances of me and bf holding hands or just pecking on the cheek and him saying some stupid shit like "i dont want to see that shit".
Recently my bfs brother introduced his gf to everyone. She stays over there a lot since bfs brother lives with their parents. There have been occasions where they will be full on making out in the living room or groping eachother. This irks the fuck out of me since when me and my bf do anything just PG he has a tiny fit. So me and my bf decided no more holding back, he will just have to deal with it. (We still keep it respectful, no making out or groping just little displays of affection like i said)
For some clarification their parents absolutly dont mind and since we havent held back have said they feel relieaved we finally feel comfortable around them enough to not have to worry about policing ourselves. (I absolutly love his parents lol).
One night we were having a movie night me, bf, parents, brother and his gf. Its a movie night so im cuddling into his chest while he has his arm wrapped around me, nothing nobody else is doing. Out of nowhere his brother burst into a shit fit going off about how hes not going to have our disgusting shit in his house and some slurs that you can probably guess. After his little tantrum his parents kicked him out of THEIR house and wont allow him back.
Now me and bf are playing block wackamole with his extended family calling us horrible shit for "making" his brother homeless (hes couch surfing). His parents are also getting shit but have assured me its alright but i feel guilty that this has cause so much drama for my bf and his lovely parents all over a fucking cuddle. AITA?