I (28 F) and husband (29 m) are always at home as I’m on Mat leave with new baby and husband is exclusively WFH for past several years.
I’m the one up all night with baby through feedings/teething/sickness/sleep regressions etc, which I have no issues with- that’s the whole reason I’m on maternity leave and my husband usually has morning meetings plus he works all day so that’s fine.
Husband takes issue when I come down late (past 10 am) maybe not understanding I have to wake up, feed baby, pump, change baby, change myself and then come downstairs. By the time I’m down if he’s already in a meeting I quickly put baby down and whip up something for myself as husband usually makes himself breakfast.
This morning I came down, husband was in meeting so I assumed he ate. Just as I get baby to stop screaming long enough to make myself quick bite husband comes out of meeting and acting super upset and hurt I didn’t make him breakfast. I offered to after I quickly ate as I’ve been up all night and starving. His response- no don’t bother, and oh I’ve been up to cos once I hear him cry at night it’s hard for me to go back to sleep- but I was actually the one awake feeding and pacifying baby.
AITA for not making him breakfast?