My (17F) parents had my brother six months ago. I never wanted to be a sister, but I get it, not my call, so whatever. My parents were angry at me because whenever family or whoever asked if I was exited, I told them no, because I wasn't. I never took it out on them, I still help when asked to and watch him for a while when they need to go out, but I'm not thrilled about him.
Don't get me wrong, I'd never take ot out on him, he didn't ask to be born. But I'm not gonna pretend to like this. I miss not getting woken up three times a night, I miss not having to drop plans with friends because they need me to watch him (They don't parentify me, I've never had to watch him for more than two hours). I miss being able to not be quiet when he's napping.
The other day my mom ask me to feed him while she was cooking, so I did. She got made at me after because she was all "Aww isn't he so cute?" and I just said "sure". She blew up, and accused me of not loving him, which I don't really. I feel no attachment to him, and I told her that. I'll do whatever they need me to do here while I'm under their roof, but I won't pretend to feel differently than I do. They both have been pissy since, and some of my friends say I'm being heartless.