For context, I live in a somewhat conservative Hispanic family. I grew up religious but have shied away from it as I got older. Makeup wasn't prevalent in my family. My older sister wore some makeup but never to the extent I do now. I grew up with some issues and live with ADD, GAD (shitty anxiety), MDD (severe depression), and a rare skin condition named HS. It's all been a nightmare to live with and have struggled with my body image and confidence. I'm now at a point where I've accepted who I am and slowly get through it day by day.
I (19 F) am began doing makeup in my senior year of high school. My parents didn't like it but didn't say anything. I've worn some colored makeup like green or pink and they said they disliked it. I've never thought much of it. One time I wore gems and glitter and eyeshadow with some friends for a birthday party and my parents shamed me for wearing makeup the way I did. It continually happened multiple times that I immediately decided I would not wear it around them.
Now I'm in college and I feel freer about it. I experiment with makeup looks with various products, designs, colors, etc, and have kept a small portfolio of pictures of the looks I'm proud of. I thought it would be nice to show my look to my parents on the phone once and they called me a monster and ugly. I quickly hung up on them and cried and felt ashamed. I later yelled at them for it. I explained to them that wearing makeup gives me confidence and lets me look forward to something. It's my form of therapy and helps me feel better about my skin condition and body image issues. But every time I tell them it goes out one ear and out the other and refuses to listen to my explanations.
I hung out with a friend and both saw my face and called me ugly. I called them hypocrites for how they called me pretty and beautiful without makeup but refuse to say anything nice about me with makeup. I explained that my makeup is art just like how my mom makes cakes and its art but they deny it.
I want to hear different perspectives and ask if I'm in the wrong for calling out my parents hypocrisy, AITA?