Okay so my ex fiancé and me have been split up for a 3 months now. We are trying to work out finances and stuff. I’ve been paying for his phone and mine because I was trying to give him time because he was switching jobs and shit and asked for more time, but two weeks ago I found out this dude has a girlfriend!! So he has found time to get a girlfriend he obviously had time to get his money in check right?
The phone bill is due in two days and I asked for money for it, and he said it complaining about money? Like I’m not complaining, I’m just asking for what is due. It’s not right that I’m paying for a phone that he uses to talk to his fucking girlfriend and mind you we have a kid together and he doesn’t call to see his kid!!! But I’m sure he’s talking to / texting her.
I tried sending him a text and this dude blocked me and like bro?? I pay for the phone why are you blocking me!!! I’m very annoyed and I just want to take him off. But I don’t know if I should give him a warning or just do it. He has had three months to figure out finances but instead he found a girlfriend. His making stupid choices and it’s not fair that I’m working my ass off and budgeting when he’s just doing god knows what.
I just feel like it’s unfair that I’m paying it. I want to just shut it off. It’s in my name and my account I brought him on when we were dating.
But I don’t know if I would be a butthole if I did that. WIBTA?