So my husband (22m) wakes up early every morning because he has physical training some days and homework other days during the week. I (23f) work part time while he’s away. Since we’ve been living together, he’s had his alarms and I wouldn’t have had a problem with them except that they go off unnecessarily. He has (as of yesterday) 3 am, 4 am, 5 am, 5:30 am, and 6 am.
My problem is that I work usually at 10 am but since I don’t drive, I’m up by 8 and leaving around 9:15. The alarms will go off and be snoozed which means every ten minutes from 3-4 am until he actually gets up, I’m getting woken up or kept up and it’s been driving me crazy for the past year. I asked about maybe only setting the ones he needs but was met with “I need them all just in case” which irritated me since before this job, I was up at 6 with the alarms keeping me up from 3-4 am.
This morning his 3 am alarm woke me up and since I was so tired, I was able to fall back asleep after a few minutes. When he was leaving for training, I was woken up again but that’s just because I’m not an incredibly heavy sleeper. He came back around 6 and asked if I could make him coffee. I asked him if he could make it since I wanted to sleep a little more before work and I have trouble going back to sleep afterwards. According to him, I have four hours to sleep so I should be fine. I reminded him that I don’t because I walk to work and have to set everything up since I’m opening. We argued a bit more before I just gave up and made the coffee. I tried to go back to sleep after but I wasn’t able to and ended up just grabbing a coffee before work.
AITA for arguing about it or am I just overreacting?