For a bit of context my husband and I meet through dnd where he ended up as a player in one of many games I GM'ed (forever GM) so dnd is rather special to us.
A few months back he was finally able to make an arrangement for us to have a group at the local game store since he wanted to let me be a player for once, but today I left the campaign only 2/5 through the module.
Since I am the person with the most experience my husband was imposing the rules very raw and extra harshly on me compared to the rest of the group.
Couple that with the group treating me like I am there basically because of nepotism so I never felt like I was part of the group.
So what really made the goblet spill for me was the addition of my husbands friend from high school who just thinks it's fun to try and think up ways, in his own words "to break the game" which in my mind in it self I feel is rather disrespectful way to be thinking about a game.
The kicker is he has started theorycrafting how to do so with my items without even trying to imply he cares if I want my stuff used that way at all and when he was finally called out for metagaming (which he does a lot) by my husband the GM for acting on knowledge he couldn't possibly have he first tried to argue to the GM that his patron could have told him (not even possible in the example) and then tried to push back with mentioning me having turned a bag of holding inside out as meta knowledge even though I was literally told that was I thing I could do.
So all in all I left and was told people responded with "too bad, guess we have to find a new player" like within the same breath making it clear they didn't really care as long as the seat was filled I guess.
But I am still feeling like I am in the wrong for leaving like this so I guess I would like to hear complete outsiders opinion on if I am the asshole?