AITA for not allowing photos of me to be taken?

For context, I am a teenager. This weekend, I had a big swim meet in Florida. My mom wanted to take and post as many pics as possible on Facebook. I have a lot of insecurity about the way I look and don’t like photos of me at all really. We have a system where she’s only allowed to post images of me that I allow her to. She took a bunch of pictures of me standing around the deck and talking to my coach and I told her I don’t want pictures of me taken when I don’t realize they’re being taken. She said she doesn’t care and refused to delete them. I told her fine, but you’re not allowed to post anything from the trip unless you delete those photos. She refused and said unless I approve some photos for Facebook she’ll just post them all. She says I’m being petty and all the other parents on my swim team just put the pictures up. I have been very firm with the rule and we’ve argued over it. I understand I’m kind of being a pain but I really care about what’s posted because people I know will likely see the photos. To add insult to injury, this morning she took a picture of me sleeping with my cat and said it was cute. She refused to delete that one too. She’s incredibly angry at me over the whole situation but I just feel like I should be allowed to have boundaries around photos of myself.