AITA for not being excited about my friends pregnancy?

My close friend and I were both pregnant and due a month apart. It was super exciting, we were both really supportive of each other. But about a month ago I had a miscarriage which was devastating. My friend had wasn’t that supportive, never asked about how I was coping and only really gave me tips on how to convince again. Recently, she massaged me complaining that I’m not excited for her anymore, and that she needs lots of support during this time because it’s her first baby. I tried to explain that I find it hard to talk about her pregnancy cause I’m still grieving mine. She told me that I should be over it by now as I wasn’t that far along. I was 8 weeks. Am I the asshole for not being as excited/supportive as I could be?