I (22F) went on a week long trip to do business with my parents the last month to the States, while my husband (27M) stayed in my home country working.
For a bit of contexts my parents payed for the whole trip, including food, hotels, shopping, etc. The only thing that I bought with our own money was an Xbox that he requested and insisted months prior to the trip, this purchase in my pint of view wasn’t necessary, cause we are less than a year married and we don’t have a lot of money yet, so to me it wasn’t a smart expense, but still I got it for him.
While I was on the trip, my dad gave me some money and told me I could buy clothes and books for myself, which I did but also I bought my husband some clothes as well. To be honest the proportion I bought for my self is greater than the proportion I bought for my husband.
The problem started a few days ago when he told me that I didn’t bring him enough stuff from the trip and that he expected more from me , which I argued that the Xbox is only for him and it was an expensive thing to bring and that I also brought him clothes with the money that my dad gave me, which i shouldn’t cause it’s not my money.
He got angry and told me he is not greatful for what I got him and that I should keep my gifts if I want to, which hurt my feelings. But he made me think that maybe I didn’t put much effort and that I should’ve got him more things , so AITA?