Hi everyone, i hope everyone is doing well. i had this situation happen to me today and i wanted to see if i really am the asshole or not. Excuse my English, it's not my first language.
so, today i had a flight from Italy to Turkey (to my hometown) and there was a couple sitting in front of me on the plane. the woman had a small bag that she kept putting on the arm resting part of the seat and it kept falling back to where i was sitting. i have the bag back to women 5 times and she always thanked me. this is a 3 hour flight so this was quite frequently happening. at last, i was able to almost fall asleep when then again, the bag fell onto my foot and i woke up (it was quite heavy for a small bag) and at that point i got angry but tried my best to not make a fuss about it. this time when i gave back the bag to the woman, she said "thanks" in a cold tone and i said "i hope this doesn't happen anymore cause i am trying to sleep" and she said she is not doing it on purpose so i should be kind and get her bag every time. i told her even though its not entirely her fault that the bag is falling, i simply don't want to wake up to pick it up and give it to her. she says that i should be less of an asshole and more sympathetic towards her cause she is older than me (by her looks im asuming maybe 30-35 years old). so, am i the asshole?